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As anyone who has participated in UConn's Education Abroad in Cape Town will tell you, there are no words to adequately explain the depth of the experiences, no narratives to sufficiently describe the hospitality of the people, and no pictures to begin to capture the exquisite scenery. Therefore this blog is only intended to provide an unfolding story of the those co-educators who are traveling together as companions on this amazing journey.

As Resident Director of this program since 2008 it is once again my privilege and honor to accompany another group of remarkable students to this place I have come to know and love.

In peace, with hope,
Marita McComiskey, PhD

(marita4peace@gmail.com)

Thursday, April 14, 2016

Paige experiences the highs and lows of Cape Town

This post is a few days past its due date (oops!) which means I have a lot to write about. 

First I just want to talk about drawing blood all by myself for the first time without any guidance! The nurse wasn’t even next to me, she was across the treatment room, yet she still trusted me to find the vein and do the procedure all on my own which was really cool. That was the first time that I truly felt independent, capable, and confident on my own in the professional setting and I was successful on the first time which made the feeling even better. I’m starting to feel very comfortable at the clinic. I’m even starting to recognize familiar faces in the waiting room which is pretty cool. I’ve been thinking about how much I will miss all of the staff and this amazing experience in just a few weeks.

We have all of the base colors completed for our mural at Heaven’s Nest. It already looks so much brighter and I can’t wait to see the final product. I love all the kids at Heaven’s Nest but there are two that I have especially bonded with—Tylin and Sukhile. Tylin was quiet at first, but now that we’ve spent a lot of time there she has really warmed up to me. She smiled really wide and ran up and hugged me at our last visit.

My fun packed weekend began with shopping for soccer balls, uniforms, and equipment for my favorite Khayelitsha Fire Fighters with Bongi, Power, and the other coeducators involved with the project. After that, I went to my usual Saturday hangout spot, Old Biscuit Mill, where I got my favorite short rib Bolognese and jalepeno Mac n Cheese Balls. After that I headed to Atlantis with a few others for our Sand Boarding adventure. Although it was definitely much different than snowboarding (since you are not in ten layers of snow clothes, you are barefoot, and you have basically no control over the board) it was still so much fun and an awesome experience. My favorite part was actually the time spent just chilling on top of the slope. After the exhausting walk up it was nice to relax and take everything in at the top. The sky was perfectly blue, without a cloud, and contrasted so beautifully against the white sand. Another favorite memory from the trip was when Drew and I took the sled down the hill and we hit some air and fell off in a not so pleasant way. My butt was very bruised and I got sand between my teeth but we both laughed it off and wished we had it on camera—it was definitely a sight to see.

Sunday, April 10th is up there with my favorite days spent in Cape Town. A group of us went skydiving about an hour or so outside of Cape Town and it was absolutely insane. I think I’ve watched the video of my jump about 50 times already, reliving the thrill of jumping out of a moving plane 9,000 ft in the air each time. It seems crazier and crazier with each view. As incredible as it was, I still screamed the whole 35 second free fall and my face was absolutely hilarious. My video was a favorite amongst my housemates in Loch Road. The feeling was indescribable. In addition to competing with bungee jumping for being the coolest thing I’ve ever done, there were also some of the best views of the coastline and table mountain in the distance. I would do it again tomorrow in a heartbeat, I loved it so much.

In my last post I talked about the 4 year old boy at the clinic who didn’t make it despite our best efforts to save him. This week I found out that the day after that boy died, his 2 month old sibling also passed. The parents (who are drug users) are now under investigation and we are waiting on the autopsy results. In combination with spending so much time with the kids at the orphanage (who come from neglectful, abusive, or unsafe living conditions) and since working in the pediatrics department of the clinic this past week (where I saw one HIV positive baby and a few other’s who are still at risk) I have just been asking myself a lot of questions. I know this kind of stuff happens all over the world and not just in South Africa, but this is the first time I’ve been exposed to a lot of it, and I just keep thinking, how does this happen? How do you bring an innocent child into a world like that—into a life of disease, abuse, or neglect? It’s hard for me to refrain from automatically assuming that the parents are selfish and irresponsible, and deep down I know that the situation may be out of their control/the result of circumstance, and that it probably isn’t entirely their fault. Still it’s hard for me to come to terms with the fact that the baby enters the world and starts its life at a disadvantage. How is that fair? How is that not an infringement of the baby’s human rights?

Today we got to give the soccer equipment to the team. They were absolutely ecstatic and I loved every second of it, especially the many hugs I received afterwards. They even had typed out signs that said “Thanks Paige!”, “Thanks Mariko/Derek/Abby!”, “Thanks UCONN!” and “Enkosi!” It was so cute and I could tell everyone really appreciated it and were excited to play with the new stuff. Then we got to scrimmage with the boys and that was definitely a workout but still a lot of fun. I was reminded of how much I love the sport and miss playing it.


As the days start dwindling down my plan is just to enjoy as much of what I already love about Cape Town in order to strengthen my memories before I have to leave. This means I will definitely revisit all of my favorite places and do some more hiking in the upcoming weeks….Stay tuned J

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